For many people, a viewing can offer a sense of closure and help with acceptance. It provides a calm space to say personal goodbyes and can be an important step in beginning to process your grief.
Viewings
A viewing gives you an opportunity to say goodbye in a peaceful and private setting.
A chance to say a final goodbye
While your loved one will always remain in your heart, a viewing offers one last opportunity to be near them, to say the things you need to say, or simply to sit in their presence before the service begins.
What happens at a viewing
A viewing usually takes place at one of our funeral homes, though it can also be arranged at your own home if you prefer. Unlike the funeral itself, which is often a public gathering, viewings are typically attended only by close family and a small group of friends.
Many families choose to make the viewing a meaningful time together. You might play their favourite music, share a drink or meal in their honour, or place personal items in the coffin, such as photographs, letters, or treasured belongings. We encourage you to do whatever feels right to make this final time together special and personal.
Do we have to have a viewing?
A viewing isn't for everyone. Some families find comfort in that final farewell, while others prefer to remember their loved one in different ways. There's no right or wrong choice – only what feels right for you. If you're unsure, we're always here to talk through your options with care and without pressure.
It's completely normal for families to feel differently about viewings. We can sit down together, talk through everyone's feelings and concerns, and explore options that respect each person's needs, finding an approach that feels considerate for all involved.
Children often handle these moments better than we might expect. With gentle preparation and honest, age-appropriate explanations, a viewing can help them understand what's happened and give them a chance to say goodbye. We're here to help you prepare them and answer any questions they, or you, might have.
Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed is completely natural. We'll talk through what to expect, answer any questions you have, and make sure you feel supported every step of the way. You can take things at your own pace, and there's no pressure to do anything that doesn't feel right.
Viewings are flexible and can be as brief or as long as you need. If you'd like private time with your loved one, we can give you the uninterrupted space to be together for as long as you wish.
We try to keep the space peaceful and comfortable, so smaller groups often work best. That said, we'll work with you to understand your needs and help create a setting that allows everyone to share the experience in a meaningful way.
Guidance when you need it most
A viewing is just one of the meaningful ways to honour your loved one. We'll guide you gently through every option, ensuring you feel supported and understood every step of the way.
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Day or night, we're here to help. Whether you're facing a loss right now or planning for the future, our team is ready.